Monday, November 26, 2007

Attention is Addictive.......

Anything and everything below is purely real. But any coincidence with anyone's lives is deeply regretted. The motto of this is to purely serve as an eye-opener.

No offense intended.

A Girl and Boy got close to each other owing to the fortunate turn of events in their lives. And as time passed by... they realized that they got so very close that they actually fell in love with each other. They proposed .. and then settled into a romantic relationship. The relationship sustained the test of time for long. And all along this period, the boy has always been talking to other girls. And has had many female-friends. His lady-love never really cribbed about it until........

Two and a half years later, she suddenly started feeling insecure. She sensed a non-existent lack of attention. And guess what she did out of this frustration??? She started speaking in satires. The boy once said something about one of his friends dumping his girl for another pretty young thing ...and our lady here says "just like you innit?" ... ahhh. Things passed by and the time tested relationship started fading... both of them felt uncomfortable due the other's presence....and finally.....

They broke-up.

WHY WHY WHY???

Why do such things happen ma friends?.. Apparently if we cross examine the general life of the girl in consideration, (i mean the life which doesn't involve the boy), then we find that she has made a new friend in her college. And she has been regularly updating her with what happens between him and her daily. Now it should be apparently clear to you what might've happened..... ??? clearly its the Influence of friends

I found all this pretty foolish. Agree or Disagree??... Then few days later,when I was casually shopping in a mart, I found this mom n son who were heatedly arguing about whether the son should get a particular chocolate or not. The mother denied him strongly and finally slapped him, who obviously started crying involuntarily. Then, both of them left the mart. I quickly followed them to see what will happen. Interestingly, A crippled beggar came walking along the street and begged them for alms. The mother immediately dropped a five rupee coin into his bowl.....

This fired a thought in me. Isn't this situation similar to the one above it? if the boy were to start crying that his mom loves the beggar more than himself...then what else can u call him rather than "foolish'???...

I say.. Everyone gets the attention which he/she should in a certain person's eyes. Do whatever.. you wont get a morsel more. An attempt to get more would just take you further down in his/her eyes. Then why crave for it?....

As I said earlier ma friends, Search yourself ..Be urself...and Attention will follow.


Attention is addictive... do not fall it's prey.

2 comments:

Nih@rik@ Droli@ said...

well i first met this washtefllow ..i thot he ws one of the many foolish ppl v get to c through the day...and then i learnt tht he ws an author..(books yet to be publishd..)..so obviously i had 2 reconsider ma opinion....and this post is a little example for hs terrific writing skills...deep thought ,and sensitivity to human emotions...the foolishness of the event could hav had been noticed by many of us..perhaps all of us...bt then the realisation of the fact tht the lattr situation ws equally meaningless as the former..is where comes in the originality..and the creativity of an author..and a thinker...so i am glad to meet a decent combination of both....!!!

Fullstop said...

:) well well.... i guess i need to be modest now... so i deny what all has been said above.. but as i deny i internally feel happy ... now i am just being myself niha.. thanks for that sweet lil comment... :D

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