I say the biggest treasure in this world for everyone is themselves....most people alive think similar....(exceptions like me always exist of course..) .. as one understands oneself, he slowly gains an understanding of how the guy next to him might be thinking...wotsay guys?...
Personally I feel the world is fully automated... Almost every time we meet an acquaintance we say "how are you?" ..but is it not universally known that we are not really interested in how he/she really is??... careful careful here.. i am not saying that asking thus is wrong... my claim is simple and in a way practical... just cross check your thoughts when u ask the question..then I assure u...the other guy will also be thinking in the similar lines when he asks it...??... so the key to other's thoughts is within you...it is your ownself!!!...
This internal probing also called "introspection" is, i feel, the most important step in a long term relationship... whenever you say something...ask yourself "do i really mean it?".. if you do not then you will immediately know what you actually do.... now the decision is up to you friends....lie or truth??..choose... but this time you will be consciously cheating yourself..innit?.cause your conscience is fully awake...
Corruption, Deception, Betrayal, Quick Break-ups are all a result of lack of this self hunt...
thats why friends..... i say... and always say...
Personally I feel the world is fully automated... Almost every time we meet an acquaintance we say "how are you?" ..but is it not universally known that we are not really interested in how he/she really is??... careful careful here.. i am not saying that asking thus is wrong... my claim is simple and in a way practical... just cross check your thoughts when u ask the question..then I assure u...the other guy will also be thinking in the similar lines when he asks it...??... so the key to other's thoughts is within you...it is your ownself!!!...
This internal probing also called "introspection" is, i feel, the most important step in a long term relationship... whenever you say something...ask yourself "do i really mean it?".. if you do not then you will immediately know what you actually do.... now the decision is up to you friends....lie or truth??..choose... but this time you will be consciously cheating yourself..innit?.cause your conscience is fully awake...
Corruption, Deception, Betrayal, Quick Break-ups are all a result of lack of this self hunt...
thats why friends..... i say... and always say...
Search yourself.....
3 comments:
Dude......ppl shud call u the Mr. Headpeeper, (synonym for psychiatrist)...well this one line shud have told u wat i felt after readin ur blog...but here again i go....i can see ur passion for anthropology in it....and sure it does reflect ur thinkin and feelins....and one good thing u have done is to put a disclaimer :).
Understanding others...true one does gain understanding abt how the guy next to him is thinkin and that again depends on the level of intimacy between them. Trust me communication is one imp aspect in life and often ppl misunderstand others bcoz of lack of communication. Everybody has their own way of thinkin which lead to assumptions and hence opinions (which are dangerous). Sure is the world automated and ppl dont think often.
Introspection huh!! yaa....if one really does that, as you said there wudnt be conception, deception, but there is one more thin called, insecurity. Often ppl are insecure abt their relationships only bcoz they dont introspect. But again the level of introspection one does depends on his/her intellectuality. Infact there is no end to it if u keep thinkin abt it...after all our minds r the fastest computers in the world.
Your blog does tingle one`s mind .It is thought provokin and ppl have diff perceptions of wat they think. This one here shows yours. If you meant to be in here bloggin to express your self.....then I feel its an honest attempt, kudos and I am sure you can do better than this and if you are here to impress ppl, ppl as such a common man, well......this wud appeal to a few select. Way to go macha :) :)
phew!! that was tiring.... but none the less ..it was enlightening...thanks for the effort RGV... i appreciate it... hope you will blog and i will post a bigger comment..revenge u see....
mama.....kaastha format maarchara...aa colourki e font...chadivevaadiki kallu poothaayira....
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